In the Meantime by Iyanla Vanzant – The #1 national bestseller from the host of the show Iyanla: Fix My Life on the Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) that answers. Love is the only thing that can make the meantime worthwhile. In this book, Iyanla Vanzant tells us how we can do this thorough mental housekeeping. Summary and reviews of In The Meantime by Iyanla Vanzant, plus links to a book excerpt from In The Meantime and author biography of Iyanla Vanzant.

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That’s one small thing in this book. That is not love, that is possession, control, fear, or a combination of them all.

When you are done, ask for guidance. In this book, Iyanla Vanzant teaches us how to do our mental housekeeping so that we can clean the windows, floors, walls, closets, and corners of our minds. This is a book Meantme can see myself picking up again and again when I’m unclear or unsure of life’s trials and tribulations. If you buy this book you won’t regret it Acknowledge or th and release your fears about what you want.

In the Meantime

These expectations, most of which we are totally unaware of, form the inner conflict we experience when we want love in fear. This is a good thing. The windows of our hearts and minds are streaked with past pains and hurts, past memories and disappointments.

I also find the book very accessible and user friendly–literally helpful from the first page.

Faith in the Valley: Back then I have to struggled with some opinionated friends that think differently, and not that I mind what they think, but it will help a bit I think. In the meantime, if we can remain loving of ourselves and toward other people by staying in conscious and honest communication, a disruption, snag, or delay in a relationship becomes a healing process. It is at that instant, the instant we shift into fear, that we must pray for healing.


Refresh and try again. When we have this kind of self-love, we are more than willing to do the work, the sometimes nasty work, required to establish, build, vanzznt maintain a relationship. More books from this author: Nov 30, Yvonne Riggs rated it it was amazing.

Cooking and making scrapbooks are her iyanlla pleasures. How do you want to feel? Write out what you fear, what you think could happen, what you would feel if that happened, what would happen to you if that happened, and anything else you can think of that keeps you in fear.

In the Meantime: Finding Yourself and the Love You Want by Iyanla Vanzant

If you want new results, do a new thing. If we do a good job of it, the light will come through. It also helped me to know that while I am single there is always plenty of self-work that I can do become a better person. Mar 09, Vanessa Thompson rated it really liked it. Iyanla cherishes her collection of over Bibles in various translations. I was at one of the if not the lowest point in my life The meantime is protective as well as preparatory.

This is not an attempt at self-analysis. In order to ensure that the trip is worthwhile, the journey remains meaningful, and the insights we gain can lead to even greater insights, we must keep our hearts open to greater experience of love.

Value, purpose, and vision. What I didn’t anticipate is that I would read almost pages that day. Consequently, you will be in the meantime until the divine person you are preparing for is also prepared and ready for you.


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Purchasing In the Meantime: Watching re-runs of Law and Order is her joy. This author always provides the most loving shoves and reminders. It focuses on positivity, self-respect and honesty.

Not because of the book itself, but because of how I feel about myself after having read the book, which Un suppose is a comment on the book itself. I would recommend this book to anyone that feels like they can’t start over.

The title really says it all, but Vanzant gets to the heart vanzwnt the matter by using personal experience and the trials of others to show that loving yourself enough to make difficult personal choices is where love and joy abound. I just recently finished reading this book again and my opinion remains the same.

In the Meantime: Finding Yourself and the Love You Want

Though to be fair this is only the second rhe of hers that I’ve read You may have done all the forgiving you need to do, but the person you are waiting for may not have even begun to do forgiving and releasing work. I love her story.

This book has helped me to realize that the best love there is, is self love. Consequently if or when we get it, or get close to getting it, the body becomes uncomfortable, and we think something is wrong.

Another contributing factor could be that your childhood programming is surfacing. Accept the fact that in a relationship the only person you are dealing with is yourself.